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Coffee Cake I Love You!

Sigh...it's been quite a while since my last post.  I've been in a rut of sorts and haven't felt much like posting.  Decided to take a mini break to gather my thoughts.  Since my last post, I began to do some soul searching and realized that my family and I were in need of a few changes.  Well I'm happy to say that the changes needed have taken place and I am elated to say that my family and I have been blessed! During this time my family and I have met some wonderful people, made some new friends, and have discovered some things about each other that have made our life here on this Earth even better!  Any change for the better is good!

I made a new friend this past month and she blessed me recently with a wonderful coffee cake to enjoy while I drink my favorite tea!

I'm a huge fan of coffee cakes (any cake actually) and tea, so thank you Grace!

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I'm putting together some blog entries and will post soon!

Hard Water...the hard, cold facts!

This past weekend was wash day for me and I realized that some naturals may not know that hard water reeks havoc on natural tresses. I'll share my experience with using hard water to wash and condition.

For the first few years since becoming natural, I would wash my hair in the shower.  As soon as my hair was saturated with water, it would tangle something fierce. I couldn't finger comb my strands while wet, and to detangle my hair after conditioning was something I did not look forward to.  I broke combs trying to detangle my hair and loss lots of hair due to breakage.  It wasn't until I washed my hair while visiting my Mom back home that I realized how the water at my own home (hard) was affecting my hair.  When shampooing my hair in the shower (soft water) at my Mom's my hair immediately felt softer and didn't tangle nearly as much.  I could finger comb my strands while wet.  It took less time to detangle and set/style my tresses.  I couldn't believe that all this time prior to going back home to visit, my strands were truly taking a beating from using the hard water to wash and condition my strands.  I thought that the dryness and brittleness were characteristics of natural tresses.  There were times when I thought to myself to go back to relaxing my strands, because I was having a hard time with managing my hair in its natural state.  Thank goodness for this water find!

Towel dried hair, no product applied.

Upon returning home, I knew that I could no longer wash my hair in the home shower, so after doing a bit of research, I discovered a water filter for my shower.  Although it did help some, the water that was filtered was still hard (used a hard water strip to test hardness).  More research lead me to discover water softener systems and distilled water.  Installing a water softener in the home was not in the budget at the time, thus I opted to use distilled water. 

Over the years, I've discovered that not all brands of distilled waters are the same.  My hair loves the Ozarka brand! All others I have tried I could tell immediately it was a no go because my strands begin to tangle immediately and I would lose a lot of hair after detangling and styling.  Now mind you, although my hair loves the Ozarka brand, it still does not produce the same results I obtained back at by Mom's home.  You can test your water in your home or your distilled water by using hard water test strips.  I use to find them within the water sofetner sections at home improvements stores like Home Depot and Lowes.  You can also request strips from Diamond Crystal Salt.

In the images within this post you can see coils and curls (prior to applying product), however, it would be a totally different look if my hair had been washed using hard water. My hair would always look like a bird's nest (due to excessive shrinkage) after washing in hard water and I would have to use more products to create curl definition.  I hated to wear my hair in a wash and go from using hard water.  It was always a tangled mess.

Now the time and effort to use distilled water to wash not only my head of hair, but that of my family is a lot of work, but it is well worth it IMO (more on my method in a later post)!  Why not just have the water softener installed? It would make washing/conditioning so much simpler.  Well, there's a time and season for everything, and depending upon the size and location of your home, this can be quite expensive.  There was a time, when I was looking into having this done, but wasn't ready to make the financial commitment. Also, I guess I may have become complacent over time in using the DW.  Since, I'm blogging about it, might as well take another look at a water softener system for the home and may have to include it among the "many" other ongoing home projects! DH will just love that!  LOL!!!

  Use soft (or Distilled Water) to wash your natural tresses or go bust! 

 

Crawfish to Geaux!

What a weekend! My family and I took some time off to visit with family in Louisiana and had a GREAT time and was surrounded by lots and lots of love!  We had our fill of my Mom's good southern cooking, which included smothered pork chops, red beans and rice, butter beans with okra and BBQ Chicken.  What made the menu complete was a trip down to Tony's Seafood for boiled crawfish!

Whenever we visit family during the early summer months, we always stop at Tony's Seafood.  We always stop by to see the live catfish.  Our younger family members get a kick out of seeing the fish
swimming so close.  We then show them the alligator head that sits on the top ledge above the blue crabs.

Although Tony's serve boiled crabs and shrimp, among other dishes, we only stop by to order bags of the boiled crawfish and at $2.99 a pound, what's not too love?